computerwizz

Does anyone have any good tips on how to save a marriage? I found a god site http://www.helpwithmarriageproblems.com thats good but I wanted to know if anyone has any feedback to give me. Thanks

LOLeigh

We did counseling and it really worked for us. If both of us had been really wanting to work things out, we would still be together...but he just really wanted out. I kept going to the counseler though, and she helps me deal with all things in my life and helps me see things from other peoples point of view. good luck.

kelkel

Go to counseling...it sounds cliche but I heard it does wonders! Also...try to remember only the good things from the marriage...dress nice for your partner and surprise them with something. Little stuff like that can save a marriageBut definitely counseling...that is essential even if you're not having problems!

cathies

cant help if we dont no whats wrong. marriages can go bad for lots of reasons. do you both want to save it and why? you need to talk to someone who can really help .

mezwood

Don't sweat the small stuff, bring the romance back (hold hands, kiss, say sweet stuff to each), tell each other you love them, go on a vacation, communicate, renew your vows, talk about what made you fall in love in the first place, try new things together (salsa dancing, pool tournament, sky-diving, new restaurants) lots of sex.

joan_of_freakin_arc

they all praise christian counseling, just whatever hasn't worked in the past, stop doing it. focus on the good, give what u want to get. communication is key.

sweetgirl7212

To save it is to find out if both parties still, well are in love with eachother..Do the both of you want to make it work, if not then there is no use..

REALITYOOOK

Divorce!!! Once you are married you aren't in love anymore!!! No matter how much you lie to yourself and how much money you spend on counselors!!!

HankS

I went to counseling and it didn't help me one bit. Complete waste. Maybe it was because the counselor was a real horses' ass! Divorce really sucks...especially if your in love with half your stuff! The best advise that I can give you is this...

1. Don't sweat the small stuff
2. Its all small stuff!

Good luck to ya!

NedBarrows

I'd say communication is the big thing, you both have to be honest with each other, you have to talk, and you most certainly should figure out why you want to separate, if she is your other half as you though she was when you got married, .. those feelings don't disappear they get buried under all that non-communication.

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