Adriana

ok we've been together for almost 2 years and frankly I'm starting to get bored. When I try to be spontaneous with my bf he gets upset. Take last weekend for example. I bought 2 tickets to go to cedar point and I was like lets go to cedar point for a few hours. He got so upset and irritated so I backed off and figured that maybe that was a little too much. So a few minutes ago I said hey, lets go to church in the morning and again he got upset because he says I don't plan things ahead of time. so after a few minutes of an argument he says fine I'll go but I'm bringin my psp!! HOW IMMATURE?! He's 22. honestly I'm getting bored of him. I want our relationship to last but I'm not the kind of person to plan every single thing i do. Any ways or tips I can help hin to be more spontaneous

aeibrean23

Let me tell u something; he is boring now ..just wait till you are married and then you will see serious boredom. U have seen nothing yet. He sounds like a total baby. He is whining because you organize stuff? Give him the boot.

aerin

You have two problems. 1. He's boring you and 2. He's getting angry when you suggest something to do. If he gets angry over something sooo little, what happens when you have an actual problem? Something is really amiss here.

Adri

You're right, he is immature by his responses... bring a PSP into church. Add, Rude and Disrespectful to your list of problems with him, not just immature. Yes, rude and disrespectful to people sitting close by him in the pews. Pathetic. The girl who wrote that he will just get more boring after/if you marry him. She is most definitely right about that. Also, don't try to change people/him by trying to "help [make] him more spontaneous. Spontaneity comes from the heart and or, it is something one chooses to do, not BE. If he isn't spontaneous, then that's something he mindfully chooses NOT to be. If there's some way he IS that makes you uncomfortable, and it really irritates you, like what he's doing all the time you say, then give him the boot. There are many good, NOT boring guys out there. Well, I imagine there are... must be.Well, good luck with whatever you choose.