8mile

I am in high school. I am a nice, quiet, shy, sensitive, considerate guy. But I can be outgoing whenever I am with a person 1 on 1. I acted very nice to a girl I liked. I gave her a birthday present, gave her chocolate when she was sick, and encouraged her she'd do better in a class. Well she rejected me but said she'd like to be my friend. We are really similar in a lot of ways. But she's a little immature since she's been to Disney world 13 times and she is very moody whenever Duke loses in basketball.I don't know how to attract girls. I've been told to act like myself and I've been told to act like a badass. I've been a badass before and I act that way whenever I'm depressed or mad. I'm a nice guy and I don't want to finish last with ladies. There's a part of me that wants to act like a badass when I go to school on monday and another part of me wants to act like myself. What should I do?

samitg

just b urself dude....

mariebear

Be yourself. Bad asses can be really annoying. Nice guys are better.

MiriamQ

no dont act like a badass...but instead of being quiet and shy, could u try to be like funny, and talkative. dat usually helps...

simrana

be urself n pay less attention towards attraction subject.

deejay

Be yourself

jesse

don't be a bad ass, be yourself but don't try and over do it with the ladies (buying them stuff when they are sick). it's basically 50/50 so kinda of play it cool-hint to them by being nice but don't do too much to act overly nice (she should be reciprocating some of the work and effort if she truly likes you).Once you have the girl, by all means go a head and buy her something once in a while

jwoo

be you, once you get her it will be hard to change back into you with out problem

CyaraC

Act like yourself. I can't stand people who think they are all bad and all. Other girls dont like it either. Just be yourself.

BrenJ

PLEASE, I'm BEGGING you, BE YOURSELF. You WILL attract girls, I PROMISE YOU. I know it's not happening right now, but if you stick to it, it will. "Acting badass" is the biggest mistake you could possibly make.